Glancing at the moment when Mama decided to build a family life with a partner, Mama would have craved a good family situation. This is certainly tested through peaceful conditions, right?
However, we certainly know that life will provide a variety of challenges that can threaten family peace. But, now Mama doesn’t need to worry anymore. Here is how to keep the family in order to remain peaceful, Ma. Yes, you can do it!
1. Orient the mind on positive things
Above all, you must know that keeping your family in order to stay peaceful must begin with a positive mind between each other because this is evidence of trust between family members needed.
In this way, each other’s quarrels and suspicions that bring us to other negative things will be very unlikely. Of course, this is highly recommended to apply to a husband and wife relationship between Mama and Papa first.
2. Two-way communication
We certainly understand and agree that family conditions that remain peaceful must be seen from how communication between family members remains interwoven. The reason is, this is indeed seen as the maximum glue.
However, in building communication, Mama is encouraged to implement two-way communication that reciprocates with each other. In other words, make sure communication gives time for us to listen attentively and give the response needed.
3. Show attention and support
Peaceful conditions are of course created in the family if each member shows concern both in the form of words, physical contact and other support shown in real terms.
The reason, this is evidence that Mama and other family members love each other while declaring that the members’ loyal existence is important. As a result, family conditions will become increasingly entrenched and the coveted peace will be realized.
4. Submitting is victory
As mentioned before, as adults, we certainly understand that life will still present its own challenges. This will certainly affect the emotional condition of someone who can be down.
As a result, it does not rule out the possibility that a small argument or just an action will occur. In responding to this, Mama is encouraged to build a defiant attitude that alleviates the situation where this must be built by every family member.
5. Apology is humility
Still connecting about the expression that relentlessness must be oriented as a victory so that the arrogance of the individual members of the family can be eliminated. So true! Humility must be built with each other.
In this regard, Mama was advised to take a stance to humble herself to apologize when making a mistake regardless of position, both for Dad and Mama. Encourage each member to do the same
6. Train patience!
One more appropriate way to keep the family situation as peaceful as possible, especially when there are various challenges facing. Very simple. Mama and other family members were asked to exercise patience enough.
Patience will make someone reach the point of maturity where this will lead us to develop ourselves in dealing with problems after problems. In the end, each member can participate to keep the family in order to remain peaceful.
7. Build polite words and deeds
Reading every point that has been explained above, we can certainly conclude that efforts to keep the family’s situation in order to remain peaceful are thoughts, actions and words that are rightly facing life.
In that case, we emphasize that Mama does not forget to build polite words and deeds with the thought that this is important. The reason is, this is a way for someone to respect and respect other parties who maintain a peaceful situation.